selfcareafterrape: selfcareafterrape: I survived an abusive relationship. At this point I have talked to and worked with hundreds of people in abusive relationships. Guess what? telling us to leave never works. ever. I could write a post about ways to help people leave. I’ll probably do that one day. but don’t be that person in …
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nurselofwyr: butts-bouncing-on-the-beltway: selchieproductions: i mean, maybe this is my inner “survivor of child abuse” talking, but I am not going to tell abusive parents that they’re bad at bringing up their children without a bullet proof plan with regards to how I could protect my student from the emotional and physical backlash of that meeting. …
furiousgoldfish: abuse is addictive due to brain’s hormonal response to extreme stimuli and it’s still not the victim’s fault if they crave abuse or feel restless and anxious without it, it does not mean they wanted it or deserved it, they’ve been hurt so much their brain is damaged by it, nobody on this planet …
Signs of an Emotionally Abusive Relationship
onlinecounsellingcollege: 1. You walk on eggshells when you’re with your partner as they’re suspicious, explosive and react so easily. 2. Their feelings and opinions are the only things that matter. Your feelings and opinions are irrelevant to them. 3. They take everything very personally. 4. They’re not interested in affirming you. 5. Any praise or …
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strawberryhorrorshow: Being abused made me such a “good kid.” I was Always polite Never acted without permission Never spoke out of turn Always did what I was told And it’s shitty that I was considered mature and praised for those things, and all of those characteristics have translated into me being an immature, “bad adult.” …
gifteddysfunction: This Key and Peele skit about bullying needs to be taken seriously…. Source: gifteddysfunction
badpearl: rainboeninja: badpearl: getting out of an abusive household – a household where you don’t feel safe – is difficult as all hell. you can’t do it at once, can’t pack a day’s bag in half an hour and leave. trust me, i’ve tried, you gotta plan in little steps break belongings down into chunks. …
c0nji: -Alan Garner, “Conversationally Speaking”; Ch9: Resisting Attempts at Manipulation.
alwaysbewoke: jesussaysno: I don’t get the man one ? the entire series is focused on stopping all abuse the man here has his mouth covered up by a woman wearing a wedding ring. meaning he is being abused by his wife. of the men i’ve known and spoken to about being abused by their wives, …
voicelessvociferation: feministpopup: the-jackals: sebhawkes: “but being abused made you so kind!” being abused made me terrified of being anything less than perfectly accommodating and pleasing in an effort to protect myself from the violence my abuser reacted with but okay whatever oh This reminds me of that Van Gogh post: “but people still deserve not …