czary: queersecrets: Image: Trans pride flag Text: Three of my last four crushes have been on trans people. I keep worrying I’m objectifying them. Then I wonder whether that’s possible, since I’m ace. What I’m attracted to is the kindred spirit, who knows what it’s like when no one else does. Hmm don’t like this …
Tag Archives: ace discourse
comcastkills: the funniest discourse i’ve seen on here was about straight people who don’t have sex or get married being oppressed and the person arguing that was like pulling up stuff from the 1300s about marriage
systemanti: jovialjuggernaut: traqqot: pteridopsida: traqqot: Valentine’s day is fun petition to change valentines day into ace awareness day ✊😔 We’re changing Valentine’s day to AroAce oppression day allosexuals/alloromantics: lmao singles awareness day! (: valentines is a hallmark holdiay anyway! (: aces/aros: hey fellow aces/aros doesnt it suck having sex and romance shoved in ur faces …
u freaks about to add ace discourse to an lgbt person’s post about their issues:
traqqot:
bl–dyhearts: I love all the aces in the replies saying they don’t hate lesbians, but we go to any positive lesbian post and we might see an, “ew gross, can you not” from like 20 aces. Just because you don’t do that, doesn’t mean that a good portion of your community don’t make demeaning comments …
traqqot: commonsensemom: traqqot: tumblr geeks who have never had sex are turning top/bottom into personality traits so like it won’t be long til people unironically have “messy bottom” in their bio and then be like “I’m ace” Oh but don’t you know? You can have sex and still be ace (REEE!)
Literally being ace is not having sexual attraction. You can still have a libido- it doesn’t stop your biological processes. It’s just that you do not feel sexual attraction to other people. They can have sex, but they won’t be sexually attracted to their partner. Ace =/= sex repulsed. There are sex repulsed aces but not all aces are. Please learn first, then try to speak.
funkylittlelesbean: estradiol: If you identify as ace but still have sex then you’re just calling yourself ace for like tumblr points cos it sure as hell doesn’t make any impact on your life or experience Also like “they can have sex, they just aren’t sexually attracted to their partner” yeah ok that sounds real healthy
deluxefemme: eclipsa: ace inclusionists are really so far up their own asses that they think anyone who disagrees with them doesn’t deserve to be lgbt and it just kinda proves that they see our community as a cool club rather than a space we founded out of fear and necessity lol you’re right and you …
What does a cishet ace even mean when they say they’re coming out/are out???
traqqot: crabbshaveabs: traqqot: crabbshaveabs: bi-against-bullshit: estradiol: they tell people about their sex life “friends and family, i need to confess something… im asexual, i dont experience sexual attraction” “uhh youre 14, of course you dont experience sexual attraction rn” “stop oppressing me mom!! gOD the acephobia in this house is unbelievable!!” That’s actually far from …
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cobracourse: asexuality: p-pwease no fucky demisexuality: normal human being allosexuality: Fuck On Command